How To Plan A Wedding In 90 Days ( Best Believe You Are Gonna Get This Done!)
How To Plan A Wedding In 90 Days (Best Believe You Are Gonna Get This Done!)
Whew! You’ve just looked at your calendar and realized that your wedding is only 90 days away. That’s right, just three months to pull off one of the most important days of your life. Breathe. You can do this. Planning a wedding in 90 days might sound impossible to some, but with the right system, the right mindset, and a few frugal tips, it’s more than doable. In fact, it might even be fun.
Whether you're working on a tight budget or just want to keep things simple and stress-free, this guide is packed with frugal living tips, budget planning, and finance aesthetic hacks to help you throw a stunning celebration without breaking the bank.
Let’s dive in and show you how to go from “I’m engaged” to “I do” in just 90 days.
Week 1: Get Clear On Your Vision and Budget
First things first, you need a solid foundation. The clearer your vision and budget are, the faster and easier your decisions will be.
Set Your Budget.
Grab your favorite budget planner or budgeting finances spreadsheet and get real about your numbers. What can you afford, and where is your money coming from? Don’t forget to include small expenses like tips, permits, and thank-you cards. Every dollar matters, especially when planning fast.
Decide Your Wedding Style.
Are you dreaming of a backyard boho wedding? A romantic outdoor ceremony? A small rustic fall reception? Choose your vibe and stick to it. This helps narrow down venues, decor, and even vendors.
List Your Must-Haves.
Pick three non-negotiables. Maybe it's food, photography, and the dress. Or venue, music, and floral design. Put your budget toward those first, and be flexible with the rest.
Example:
Jenna and Marcus planned a wedding in 87 days with just $5,000. Their must-haves? Great food, personal vows, and a beautiful outdoor setting. They DIY-ed everything else, and it turned out unforgettable.
Week 2: Book the Big Vendors
You don’t need 12 months to book vendors. You just need focus, fast decisions, and great communication.
Choose a Date and Venue.
Call around and ask for available dates. Many off-season or weekday weddings are not only easier to book last-minute, but also cheaper.
Secure Your Officiant.
Whether it’s a religious leader, a friend, or a professional officiant, make sure they’re locked in early. You need someone licensed and available.
Book Your Photographer.
Don’t sleep on this. Great photographers get scooped up quickly, even off-season. Ask about elopement or weekday packages to save some serious money.
Reserve Food and Entertainment.
Whether you’re doing food trucks, buffet catering, or a DIY potluck, this needs to be arranged early. The same goes for your DJ or band. If you're really on a budget, make your own wedding playlist and ask a tech-savvy friend to manage it.
Tip:
Create a group text or wedding email for vendors. This keeps your planning streamlined and less stressful.
Week 3: Pick Your People and Outfits
Now it’s time to think about who’s standing next to you and what everyone’s wearing.
Choose Your Wedding Party.
Keep it small if needed. No need to feel pressured. One maid of honor and one best man is more than enough.
Buy or Rent Outfits.
Check off-the-rack bridal shops, online retailers, or rental sites for affordable dresses and suits. Look for “ready to ship” or “in stock now” options.
Schedule Fittings Immediately.
No time to waste. Get alterations done within the month. Many tailors offer rush services if needed.
Coordinate Your Party’s Attire.
Choose a color scheme and let your crew pick outfits they already own or can rent. It saves money and stress.
Example:
Sandra found her wedding dress on clearance at a boutique for $300, and her bridesmaids wore their own blush-colored dresses. Chic and budget friendly!
Week 4: Invitations and Guest List
We’re one month in. Let’s get the word out and start collecting RSVPs!
Finalize Your Guest List.
Smaller is simpler. Consider how many people you can afford to host, then stick to it. Bonus: smaller weddings are way more personal.
Send Digital Invitations.
Paper invites are cute, but digital is faster and cheaper. Use a site like Paperless Post, Canva, or Greenvelope.
Set Your RSVP Deadline Early.
You’ll need headcounts for food and seating, so don’t wait too long. Request responses within two to three weeks.
Create a Wedding Website.
Include your love story, timeline, dress code, and RSVP link. It keeps everyone informed and saves you answering the same questions over and over.
Weeks 5 to 8: Decor, Details, and DIY
Now that the big pieces are in place, it’s time to make your day beautiful without going broke.
Choose a Color Palette.
Stick to 2–3 main colors. It simplifies shopping for everything from flowers to tablecloths.
DIY Simple Decor.
Check Pinterest for frugal wedding decor. Mason jars, candles, and printed signs go a long way. You can even use summer crafts tutorials to create cute centerpieces with kids or your bridal party.
Borrow or Rent What You Can.
Ask friends who recently got married if you can borrow decor or signs. Local Facebook groups are gold for cheap or free wedding stuff.
Order Flowers Smart.
Stick with greenery, baby’s breath, and in-season blooms. Consider ordering wholesale and arranging bouquets yourself.
Plan Your Seating Chart.
This will save chaos on the big day. Use free tools online or even good old sticky notes and a poster board.
Week 9: Final Details and Timeline
The finish line is in sight. Time to tie everything together.
Create Your Wedding Day Timeline.
Write out every step of the day from hair and makeup to the last dance. Give a copy to vendors and key people.
Confirm Vendors and Deliveries.
Email everyone to confirm arrival times, addresses, and final payments.
Prepare Your Vows or Ceremony Script.
Write them early and practice. You’ll thank yourself when nerves kick in.
Buy or Borrow Accessories.
Don’t forget shoes, jewelry, and a veil or hairpiece. Keep it simple and stick to your style.
Prepare Wedding Favors (Optional).
Something as simple as cookies, seed packets, or handwritten notes can be memorable and frugal.
Week 10 to 12: Final Prep and Celebrate
It’s go time. These last three weeks are all about final checks, relaxing a bit, and getting excited.
Pack Your Wedding Day Bag.
Include your rings, marriage license, backup makeup, a snack, and deodorant.
Break in Your Shoes.
Wear them around the house so you’re not hobbling down the aisle.
Get Your Marriage License.
Check your state’s requirements and timing. Don’t leave this for the last second.
Have a Rehearsal.
Even if it’s casual, a run-through with your wedding party helps calm nerves.
Self-Care Time!
Take a deep breath, do a face mask, and remember this day is about love, not perfection.
You Absolutely Can Do This
Planning a wedding in 90 days is no joke, but you’re not alone and you’re more than capable. You don’t need a $30,000 budget or a year of planning to create something meaningful. All you need is intention, a sprinkle of creativity, and some frugal flair.
Stick to your values, focus on what matters most, and remember that love doesn’t need a long timeline to shine.
Let’s prove to everyone that a short timeline doesn't mean short on style. You’ve got this!
Till Next Time
Financially Fearless Blueprint Out!
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